Today is Ash Wednesday. A day that marks the beginning of the Lenten Calendar. For those of you who don't celebrate Lent and for those of you who do but don't understand the meaning behind the 40 days, here's a little bit of context, from a Catholic's point of view.
When we choose our Lenten sacrifice, we shouldn't pick something that's easily accomplished. The sacrifice should be a challenge. Just like Christ struggled, we too should endure a personal-sense of struggle. So the decision each year is never an easy one, and I don't take it lightly. Some years I get so wrapped up in the decision and the meaning of the sacrifice that I can't decide what to do and I skip it altogether. That was about to happen this year, until last night. I came up with what I think is the perfect sacrifice for me, this year.
After such a serious intro, I feel like it's almost silly saying that I'm giving up Reality TV for the next 40 days, but that's the decision I've made for Lent this year. And in all seriousness, it will be challenging for me. I love to zone out to junk television each night. I know all about the Housewives and the Kardashians. I watch the Bachelor and the Shahs. If it's on Bravo, you can bet I've watched or it's in the queue. And so to all these shows I'm saying goodbye, at least for the next 40 days.
After careful consideration I've decided to lay some ground rules for myself, so that I don't toe the line and fail on my commitment. Here are my No Reality TV Rules:
- Simply put, no Bravo reality TV, no Bachelor or Bachelorette, no Kardashians or any other standard reality television at all
- Food Network, DIY and HGTV do not count as reality TV
- I can record anything and watch it after Easter just not during Lent
- This does not include shows my husband likes to watch like Shipping Wars (this is my sacrifice not his)
- If for any reason I need to watch a clip or episode for work that is exempt (this likely won't happen)
Ultimately, by cutting out reality TV, my goal is to spend more time with my family and friends, to exercise more often and to devote more time to prayer. All these things should help bring me closer to God. It won't be easy and the reason I decided to share my Lenten sacrifice is so that there are people out there that can hold me accountable. But until Lent officially starts I'm going to enjoy my last few hours soaking up all the Housewives and Bachelor episodes I possibly can.