November 11, 2018

Integrating Finances into a Second Marriage

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As difficult as it can be to get yourself on a solid financial footing in a first marriage, a marriage can be even more financially complicated the second time around. According to, money is one of the leading causes of divorce and overcoming the obstacles can be challenging. A person entering into a second marriage may have a more complicated financial situation: pre-existing debt, established spending or budgeting habits, and possibly financial obligations to their ex-spouse and/or children. For these reasons, it is crucial to take steps to help secure your financial future before you say, “I do” to your new spouse. Consider employing the strategies listed below to help ease your financial transition into a second marriage.

Be clear about your financial plans and goals. Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your financial situation. Maybe you didn’t have many assets at the time of your first marriage, but chances are you now have a house, retirement savings, and investment earnings. You should approach this union with an attitude of full disclosure – of your assets as well as your debt. You and your spouse should be knowledgeable of the others’ salary, debts, financial obligations, loans, savings, and credit status. You’ll also want to be aware of your future mate’s spending habits and savings goals. Some small conversations with your spouse before the wedding can lead to a significantly healthier financial picture for your future years together.

Set yourself up to succeed. An element of financial freedom is important in any marriage but can be critical for people who may be used to some financial independence. For couples entering into a second marriage, especially if one or both people have spousal and/or child support payments, it may make sense to establish three different checking accounts: yours, mine, and ours. Each person contributes a set amount into the joint account to pay for common bills like the mortgage, utilities, etc. Individual expenses including child support, alimony, loan payments would come out of the separate accounts. Financial struggles are often more about power and insecurity than they are about money. Allowing each person financial freedom and control over his/her money may prove to minimize conflict and resentment within the marriage.

You also may want to investigate filing your taxes as “married, filing separately,” especially if one partner is still connected financially with a former spouse. Since filing as “married, filing separately” may increase your tax bill, be sure to consult with a tax professional to determine the most appropriate choice for your personal situation.

Get your papers in order before the wedding. Before you hire the band or interview the photographer, it is essential that you review your legal and estate plans. Discuss such things as beneficiaries, wills, life insurance policies, and retirement accounts, make a checklist, and complete them as quickly as possible after the legal event has been completed. Consider discussing your wishes with your children. They may be more accepting of your new marriage if they know you have made provisions for how your prior assets will be distributed in the event of your death, and who will receive sentimental items like dad’s favorite cufflinks.

What about a prenuptial agreement? The act of creating a prenuptial agreement forces a couple to engage in honest communication and conduct a thorough inventory of all assets and financial responsibilities. The greatest benefit of this type of document is that it can prevent arguments over debts, assets and financial contributions to the marriage. A well thought out agreement can save a significant amount of money and heartache in the future. Laws pertaining to prenuptial agreements vary from state to state, so contact a family law attorney in your area to develop a customized plan.

If you need help integrating your finances with your future spouse, consider consulting a professional financial advisor. The Atlanta based Wealth Management Firm of Benedetti, Gucer & Associates can be a valuable asset in this regard. Their fee-based, fiduciary advisors have decades of experience preparing and implementing financial plans for their clients. A qualified advisor can ask the tough questions and help you develop a financial plan that helps meets your goals for the future. The good news is that with careful planning and open communication, a couple can work through their money issues and financial disagreements.


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